Some thoughts and discussions from me.
Some thoughts and discussions from me.
Heyyy there! Before we get started, I wanted to say THANK YOU to everyone who already picked up a copy of Body Weight Burn! I can’t wait to hear how you do with it 🙂
How was your weekend? We had Shane’s family staying at our house, so it was a low key couple of days at home for us. We went out to eat, had drinks at home, and got to spend some time together. I also got out for a solo run, a trail run with Heidi, some mountain river time, and some lifting in.
I’ve been on such an outdoor kick this month, getting back to the gym and lifting some iron felt so good!
What is it about water and mountains that are just so dang peaceful?
Always love getting out with this girl 🙂
Yay weekends 🙂 Sorry about the vertical pictures – All of these pics are from my Snapchat=TrainerPaige, of which I have a slight obsession with, even though there’s a good probability that I post a little too liberally. Hey, it disappears in 24 hours! That means I can give precisely 75% less thought as to what I choose to post, right? 😉
Anyway.
Did I tell you about my July ‘goals?’ Well, basically, my aim is to soak up every last bit of the month, and if that means going for a mountain-view run at 9am because it feels splendid for my soul, even though I should probably lift, I’mma do it.
Ahhh. Just looking at that again makes me feel so damn grateful.
So the other day I was in a downright all out piss poor mood. Some things had happened that just put me in a foul mood and I just wasn’t able to see clearly enough at the moment to snap myself out of it like I usually am. So, I relied on one of my tried and true tactics of self-soothing: a good hike.
Exercise is my drug of choice for getting endorphins flowing, but it’s not the antidote I’m referring to in the title of this post.
Anyway, I did one of my favorite hikes here in Boulder, for convenience-sake: Royal Arch. It’s a good butt-kicker, but not too long or too difficult. It’s tourist season here in Boulder, which meant that my Saturday hike was going to be crowded. I met a woman from Hawaii who extended her work trip in order to experience Boulder, but the majority of it, I spent in my own head.
Within minutes, I was completely out of my funk. It’s not because of the exercise. It wasn’t the fresh air. And it wasn’t even being in nature, although all of those did contribute.
What was the antidote to being in a funk? Nine letters: G-R-A-T-I-T-U-D-E
I was in the mountains in Colorado in nature. A few years ago I’d had to have driven 18 hours to do that – not 15 minutes.
I was trekking it up a mountain, pain free, with working legs. There are quite a few people who can never walk again. I was huffing and puffing and breathing. So many others out there can’t breathe without a tube.
I had a backpack full of water and electrolytes. Many in this world don’t have access to clean water.
I had a complete Saturday full of free time. There are thousands who have no freedom at all.
And on, and on, and on.
The thing is, the majority of people on this earth would pay a million dollars for our troubles. Oh, so you got in a fight with your best friend? You HAVE a best friend. You’re stuck in traffic, making you late for a very important meeting? You have a job. Heck, you can DRIVE.
And It’s not just being grateful; it’s having an abundance mindset. This means knowing that there are enough resources out there to sustain you. According to Covey, who started the whole “abundance mindset” mentality, means knowing there are “enough resources and success to share with others, when looking at optimistic people.”
To me, this means being able to celebrate the victories and successes of your friends and competitors, and knowing that you can be successful, too.
Well clearly, if you’re coveting what someone else has or has accomplished, you’re not being grateful for what you have or what you have accomplished. Any moment that we spend wrapped up in negativity over what we wish we had, or wish we could do, we’re not standing in gratitude over what we have and can do.
Additionally, I’ve personally found that the more abundant I am in being grateful, the more abundance in my business, in my relationships; in my life. It goes hand in hand with my principle to surround myself with positive people who have a good outlook on life coinciding with my optimistic outlook.
You might agree with everything I’ve said so far (or you might not, whatevs) but clearly, it’s much easier said than done. Especially if you tend to have a highly reactionary personality and let little things, petty things rile you up. It can be tough to see clearly through all of that muck.
The first time I remember applying this was actually when I knew nothing about the abundance mindset and had never even thought of studying gratitude. I had a health scare and had to have surgery for it back in 2007. For the first few weeks, it felt like my world was crashing in on me. I was scared I had cancer, that my life would be forever changed, and so on. It sounds kind of funny, but I remember peeing, and thanking God that I could at least pee normally – and not sarcastically either. I was truly grateful! For some people can’t! lol
Now, whenever I’m feeling at odds with reality or in a down and out mood, I think of the first thing I’m grateful for – even if it’s for my breath. And think about how blessed I am because of it.
Practice makes better with this. The more you do it, the more natural and easy it will become to pull yourself out of that funk.
With all of that said, thank you for reading this! I appreciate every single one of you who took the time to visit my blog today. I wish I could comment and thank each of you individually!
Enjoy the day 🙂
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This is just what I needed today 🙂 I went to bed/woke up in a bit of a funk because last night I warped one of the nice new pans I got for our wedding… a frickin’ PAN. And, you know, now my entire life is ruined 😉 Instead I’ll focus on being grateful that I have nice cookware to begin with, and food to make in it, AND I am going out to experience RMNP for the first time today!
Thanks for being an awesome blogger!!
Have fun in RMNP!! Which trail will you be hiking?? (Also, if you ever want to get out there during the week, and need a hiking buddy, let me know!:))
Definitely! And HOLY COW – I can see why going on a weekend would be a bad idea! We hiked up to Mills Lake and the first half mile to Alberta Falls was jam-packed. We all agreed that Alberta Falls felt more like a Disney World attraction than something in a national park 🙂 Luckily, the crowds thinned out a lot after that, and it was beautiful!
I’m grateful for the job I have. It’s not the perfect job, a lot of the time I don’t want to come to work but I try to remember how lucky I am to have it. It is a good job & it allows us so many opportunities.
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Ahhh yes, gratefulness and some Vitamin D do wonders to help change your perspective on things. Love your thoughts on this!
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Yes! That Vitamin D 🙂
I am incredibly grateful for the crazy life I’m living…all of it. And all of the awesome people who make it possible and who deal with my crazy! 🙂
Your life is so fun right now! And your crazy just makes me feel better about my own crazy 😉 HA!
Thank you for this post! I’m in a total funk this week/weekend and I need to focus on the good, not my struggles. Also totally random question – but have you ever written a post on building muscle for women who struggle to gain muscle? Haha looking for help and I trust your judgment! (and your results!)