Some thoughts and discussions from me.
Some thoughts and discussions from me.
Hello, and happy beginning of the week! (That sounds a lot better than Monday, amiright?)
Thanks to everyone who participated in my little poll the other day. Here was the breakdown, if you care:
(I put the “quit blogging” option is as a joke, but was very thankful no one voted that! haha)
Also added in “other” were: metabolic workouts, research findings, daily eats, beginner workouts, and Colorado schtuff. I suppose today’s post can be filed under “daily life/shenanigans,” because we’re talking about life. (side note: I put MUCH more of this category on instagram than I do the blog )
The past week has just been great around here. I’m a very positive person by nature – now – but it took years of practice – ha! Honestly, I just don’t see the point on focusing on the negative so much – especially by complaining about it. I really try not to vent too much, because studies have shown that venting doesn’t, in fact, allow you to blow off steam, but really just gets you worked back up again anyway. Obviously, if there’s something in my life I need to deal with, I’ll deal with it, but I’ll try to do so in a positive manner. I’ve also learned that I just can’t be around negative people for very long. I’ve mentioned this before, but it’s just the truth. I need to just have a unicorn that follows me and keeps the jerks away.
(I’d also like one with good grammar, but I suppose beggars can’t be choosers when it comes to unicorns.)
Clearly, life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, but the way I see it, it’s what it is, and what brings us down are our thoughts about those situations anyway. So, we might as well just think positively about it.
Another big one for me is to stay in my own business and out of anyone else’s. It might sound kind of selfish to some, but we can only live our own lives, right? I see it as not trying to control anyone else, which is always stressful. And if that doesn’t make sense, just google Byron Katie. So yeah, I tend to be a pretty cheery person (but one who’s not lost on sarcasm and crass) and it’s probably annoying to some people. But you know what? That’s their business
Alas, some weeks/days I just feel more upbeat and grateful than usual. Call it a good mood, I s’pose; Either way, it’s such a great feeling, you know? And this past week was one of those weeks. I was able to get out on the trails a few days, and we had family in town visiting us, which I definitely think boosted my spirits a bit.
I’ve recently been exploring the low side of Chautauqua by running along its trails. Aside from the beautiful views, I also spotted several people running completely barefoot – running along the same trails I was (which are really rocky!!)
Since we’ve been having great weather lately, I’ve also been taking advantage of our back patio and doing my afternoon work outside. It’s nice and shaded, so it’s a good way to get some fresh air while also avoiding the blazing hot sun we get here.
On the friend/family front, our group of neighborhood friends recently got together – and all of us in the neighborhood got to hang out at the same time. That rarely happens due to someone working, being out of town, etc. So we asked a waiter to snap a picture.
I love going out to eat with a big group of friends, because that means I get to sample everyone’s drinks (but still usually end up ordering a French martini.) Then we all share dessert, but probably not how you’re thinking. Each one of us orders our own dessert, and then we pass all of them around the table until their gone. The best way to do it…unless you order the tastiest item
Funny story. The waiter seemed kind of confused and seemed to be taking our picture for a while. When I got my phone back, I saw he had taken about 25 pictures! Oops lol
And lastly, Shane’s dad and step mom have been visiting us, and it’s always nice to have a piece of “home” here in Colorado. We had a great time showing them around the area and hanging out. However, it made me miss my own parents quite a bit. They just moved to Florida, so I’m hoping to catch a visit to them in the very near future!
It rained a bit last night, but now I’ve got a hankering for the trails. Time to go get muddy.
Are you a positive person by nature?
What are some good things going on in your life this week?
YES YES YES.
my glass isnt half full—it’s overflowing.
CARLA recently posted…Consciously uncouple with me?
You definitely strike me as an optimist, Carla 😉
I’m becoming more of a positive person… I’m so high strung that it is a challenge for me at times. At least I know what to work on though right?? 😉
Brittany @ Delights and Delectables recently posted…Back to Reality
I LOVED this post! Thanks for sharing!
I try to be as positive as I can, but I’m a bit of a worry wart. So, I’m working on it.
This week, I’m going to a Bruno Mars concert with my sister. I can’t wait!
Amy recently posted…Marvelous Monday: Milwaukee Edition
Being positive makes a world of difference to me. Great post!
Erin @ Girl Gone Veggie recently posted…A summer weekend in Omaha
I’m generally a pretty positive person, but my Type A personality and the “what ifs” that consume my mind at times can cause some negativity to creep in sometimes. It’s something I’m constantly working on. Great reminder! And I’m so glad you had a great weekend! Family visiting is always so refreshing. 🙂
Ashley @ My Food N Fitness Diaries recently posted…Rethinking How We Compliment One Another
I can totally understand that. I’ve gotten better at worrying, but it’s such a hard thing to try and control!
Like Ashley, I’m positive, but I’m also Type A so that gets in the way. I’m trying to be more Type B and carefree… then I begin to worry that I’m not being responsible.
Julie recently posted…MIMM: First weekend of summer!
Love this. I always call myself a glass half full type of girl!
Debbie @ Live from La Quinta recently posted…8 Summer Running Tips. Plus Training and Doggy Updates, and Baseball
Love! We are working on being more positive everyday!!
purelytwins recently posted…power of two 18 minute leg burning workout purely training #67
I used to allow my anxiety and worrying about how the future will turn out, take over. That led to panic and increased anxiety. I have done A LOT of work to grow past this and learn to let go at controlling life’s outcomes and instead controlling how I react to circumstances…negatively or positively.
Jenn@Mark My Miles! recently posted…Breaking the rules!
Way to go, Jenn! It really does take work..
I so needed this post today! I”m generally positive & I’ve been dealing with a “negative nelly” for much too long. It’s always someone else’s fault, etc. I’ve made the decision to step away (far, far away). We were in Colorado last week on vacation with friends. It’s so beautiful! I’m in Louisiana & the whole going from below sea level to the crazy altitude was hard. Did it take you a long time to get acclimated to it? Love love love a french martini!
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